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Today’s topic is Masturbation good or bad. A regular reader of requested to write about masturbation. So we considered his request and gave some facts about masturbation( ಹಸ್ತಮೈಥುನ)

Masturbation is also called by slangs handjob or fingering for men and women respectively. Masturbation or self-pleasuring, touching, and rubbing parts of your body for sexual pleasure, such as penis, clitoris, vulva, and breasts. Self Masturbation is one of the healthy ways to attain orgasm although there are many myths behind that.

Masturbation in men :

According to major surveys on masturbation, more number of men masturbate than women. While asking readers about masturbation, a 32-year unmarried guy told “I feel relaxed when I masturbate. And the climax of masturbation is so heavenly, I can’t put them in words”. The 34-year-old married guy told, “I and my wife have regular intercourse, but when she is in her periods I masturbate when I feel high”

Masturbation in women:

Masturbation in women is quite riskier, as fingering with bare hands may result in the entry of many harmful microorganisms to the vagina.  And masturbation can also lead to in the infection if you have long nails and dirt piled up in them. According to the Durex survey in 2017, 70% of women don’t feel orgasm during intercourse. So women who are not satisfied by their partner can opt for masturbation when required.

The orgasm is widely regarded as the peak of sexual excitement. It is a powerful feeling of physical pleasure and sensation, which includes a discharge of accumulated erotic tension. The climax of orgasm is marked by ejaculation of semen in men and secretion of vaginal fluid (white fluid) in woman.

Myths behind masturbation

Well, there are many myths about masturbation. People say masturbation is ethically wrong and socially unexpectable. There is nothing wrong with masturbation, its normal process in human beings. Even Sadguru and motivational speaker Sandeep Maheshwari spoke on this. Masturbating and enjoying self during intervals is fine. But as there is a saying “Too much is too bad”, we should not get addicted to masturbation. It should be in limits. Addiction may cause severe problems.


“Sometime before 6 months, I was stepping out of my PG in Bangalore, where I saw a nomad who was starring at me. At the beginning I ignored him. But his moves shocked me. He opened his zip and started to masturbate. That was the very first time I saw a guy masturbating” said our anonymous reader to us.

Many coaches and trainers personally inform athletes or sporters to masturbate on the previous night of their performance. American sexpert, Dr. Young. “There’s long been the belief that a man’s sperm was somehow linked to his testosterone, ejaculation could boost testosterone and thereby make a man stronger and more aggressive. Because testosterone is somewhat of a wonder-hormone when it comes to sports performance”

Tips to masturbate

  1. Wash your hands with handwash before you masturbate
  2. Don’t use sanitizer. Sanitizer contains alcohol. Alcohol may cause burns in your private parts
  3. For men- don’t masturbate in your rooms and spill the semen on your bedspread. Go to the bathroom and ejaculate to the toilet pit.
  4. Like you wash your hands after having food, wash your hands after masturbation,

Use of sex toys

The use of sex toys for masturbation shows the perverted behavior, because, natural ways are sufficient to satisfy one’s own body. However, the use of sex toys may result in infections. Though it is possible to have sex when a woman is pregnant, if the couple is not careful, it may result in adverse problems. So when your partner is pregnant you can masturbate and enjoy it!




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